DINK lifestyle in pro-natalist Singapore

Abstract

The dual-income, no-kids (DINK) lifestyle has gained prominence among young, highly educated Chinese heterosexual couples in Singapore. Using a qualitative research approach, in-depth interviews with six couples were conducted to examine their motivations, lived experiences, and societal perceptions within the context of Singapore’s persistent pro-natalist policies. Findings reveal that financial pressures, career aspirations, and lifestyle priorities collectively outweigh state-driven incentives for childbearing. Pro-natalist policies fail to address deep-seated structural barriers, such as high living expenses and stressful work culture, which deter young, highly educated Chinese heterosexual couples from having children. Interestingly, these couples experience minimal stigma, reflecting a “deviant departure”, in which the DINK lifestyle is increasingly normalised rather than perceived as deviant. This study highlights the misalignment between state policies and evolving lifestyle aspirations, contributing to broader discussions on fertility trends and family planning in Singapore.